A New York parent can name a guardian for minor children in a will, but the appointment does not work the way most people expect. Under Domestic Relations Law (DRL) § 81, a parent may appoint a guardian of the person and a guardian of the property, and Surrogate's Court Procedure Act (SCPA) § 1710 bars the named guardian from acting until the will is probated and letters of guardianship issue. Statutes are quoted as they read on nysenate.gov on October 25, 2026.
Can I name a guardian for my children in my New York will?
Yes. DRL § 81 lets a surviving parent appoint a guardian by will or by deed for any unmarried child under eighteen, and even for a child not yet born. The operative language reads:
"Upon the death of either father or mother, the surviving parent, whether of full age or a minor, of a child likely to be born, or of any living child under the age of eighteen years and unmarried, may, by deed or last will, duly executed, dispose of the custody and tuition of such child during its minority or for any less time, to any person or persons."
— New York Domestic Relations Law (DRL) § 81A parent who is still a minor can make the appointment, and it can cover "any less time" than the full minority.
The will must be "duly executed" for the appointment to work. Without a valid appointment, SCPA § 1701 authorizes the Surrogate's Court to appoint a guardian of the person, of the property, or of both; our guide to dying without a will in New York explains what else happens in that situation.
What is the difference between a guardian of the person and a guardian of the property?
A guardian of the person raises the child; a guardian of the property manages the child's money and assets. DRL § 81 allows a parent to split the two roles and says the parent "shall not be limited to the appointment of the same person or persons in both capacities".
The guardian of the person makes the day-to-day and major life decisions. For a court-appointed guardian of a child, SCPA § 1706(1) describes the role as "the right and responsibility to make decisions, including issuing any necessary consents, regarding the child's protection, education, care and control, health and medical needs, and the physical custody of the person of the child."
The guardian of the property is supervised much more closely. SCPA § 1708(1) states: "Except as provided in this section, all property of the infant shall be secured by bond as provided in this act." Under § 1708(2), the court may instead dispense with a bond, wholly or partly, and order funds deposited "subject to the order of the court," withdrawable "only on the order of the court," except that no court order is needed to pay the money over to the child once the child "has attained the age of eighteen years" unless the depository has received an order directing it to withhold payment past the eighteenth birthday.
For a guardian appointed by will, SCPA § 1711(3) adds: "No guardian by will or deed shall receive any property other than the property derived under the instrument of appointment without first giving a bond in a penalty to be fixed by the court."
Many parents leave the children's share in a trust, so a trustee they choose manages the money instead of a court-supervised guardianship account. Our article on revocable vs. irrevocable trusts in New York covers how those trusts are structured.
What happens if the other parent is still alive?
As a rule, a guardian named in one parent's will takes effect only if, when the will is probated, the other parent has died or has been adjudicated incompetent. DRL § 81 sets that condition:
"An appointment of a guardian of the person and property of an infant made by duly executed last will of his father or mother shall be valid and effective if at the time the will is admitted to probate the other parent shall have died or the surviving parent be an adjudicated incompetent."
— New York Domestic Relations Law (DRL) § 81So the clause is effectively a plan for the death of both parents, or for a surviving parent who has been adjudicated incompetent. DRL § 81 also addresses several related situations:
- Naming the other parent. Either parent may, while both are living, appoint the other "the guardian of the person and property of such child, during its minority."
- Naming the other parent plus a third person. A parent may appoint the other parent and a third person as co-guardians only "with the written consent of the other duly acknowledged". The consent must include a sworn statement that the consenting parent is acting solely for the welfare of the child and has not received and will not receive any consideration for consenting.
- Both parents die together. If both die and it is difficult or impossible to determine who died first, and both wills name the same guardian, "the appointment shall be valid and effective." If the wills name different people, the Surrogate's Court decides which appointment will serve the child's welfare and issues "letters of guardianship accordingly."
- A surviving parent regains competence. If, during the child's minority, the surviving parent "becomes competent to serve as guardian," that parent may apply to the court that issued the letters for a decree revoking them.
Does the guardian named in my will take over automatically?
No. The person named cannot act until the will is admitted to probate and the Surrogate's Court issues letters of guardianship. SCPA § 1710 states the rule:
"A person shall not exercise within the state any power or authority as guardian of the person or property of an infant by virtue of the appointment by the will of an infant's parent, being a domiciliary and dying after this act takes effect, unless the will has been duly admitted to probate and recorded in the proper court and letters of guardianship have been issued thereon"
— New York Surrogate's Court Procedure Act (SCPA) § 1710DRL § 81 ends on the same point: a guardian appointed under that section "shall not exercise the power of authority thereof unless such will is admitted to probate, or such deed executed and recorded as provided by SCPA 1710."
The named guardian also has a deadline. Under SCPA § 1711(2), once the will is admitted to probate, the person appointed "must within 3 months thereafter qualify as provided by 708 unless contrary to the express provisions of the will or deed" by filing a petition showing the facts that entitle him or her to letters; otherwise the person "is deemed to have renounced the appointment." The court may extend that time "upon good cause shown" under § 1711(4), and the person may decline the role before qualifying by filing an acknowledged renunciation under § 1711(5).
Any delay in probate delays the guardian's authority. Our guides to letters testamentary in Manhattan Surrogate's Court and the SCPA explain the court process the guardian's petition runs through.
What does the Surrogate's Court check before appointing a guardian?
The court screens the proposed guardian and the household. Under SCPA § 1704(6), a guardianship petition must state whether the petitioner knows that the nominated guardian, or anyone eighteen or older living in that person's home, is the subject of an indicated report filed with the statewide central register of child abuse and maltreatment, or of a child protective proceeding that resulted in a finding of abuse or neglect.
SCPA § 1706(2) separately requires the court to inquire of the Office of Children and Family Services whether the nominee or any adult in the home is the subject of an indicated report or of a report under investigation.
SCPA § 1706(1) also provides: "If the youth is over the age of fourteen years, the court shall ascertain his or her preference for a suitable guardian."
What is a standby guardian in New York?
A standby guardian is a person whose authority starts when a triggering event occurs, without waiting for probate. SCPA § 1726(1)(a) defines the term to include a person designated in writing "whose authority becomes effective upon the death, administrative separation, or incapacity" of the parent, or "upon the debilitation and consent" of the parent.
The designation is a signed, witnessed document; the court becomes involved when the standby guardian later petitions. SCPA § 1726(4)(a) sets the signing requirements:
"A parent, a legal guardian, a legal custodian, or primary caretaker under the circumstances described in paragraph (a) of subdivision three of this section or under circumstances described in subparagraph (i) of paragraph (b) of this subdivision may designate a standby guardian by means of a written designation, signed by the parent, legal guardian, legal custodian or primary caretaker in the presence of two witnesses at least eighteen years of age, other than the standby guardian, who shall also sign the writing."
— New York Surrogate's Court Procedure Act (SCPA) § 1726The designation may name an alternate standby guardian "in the same writing, and by the same manner" under § 1726(4)(b)(ii). Once the standby guardian's authority begins, the clock runs: the standby guardian "shall file a petition pursuant to paragraph (d) of this subdivision within sixty days of the date of its commencement" or the authority "shall cease after such date, but shall recommence upon such filing" (SCPA § 1726(4)(c)).
A parent with a progressively chronic or irreversibly fatal illness, or who may become subject to administrative separation, can instead petition the court in advance for a judicial appointment of a standby guardian under SCPA § 1726(3). Where that decree makes the guardian's authority effective on the parent's death, the standby guardian must file the death certificate or other evidence of death with the court "within ninety days of the date of the petitioner's death" or the authority may be rescinded.
Section 1726(4)(f) allows a parent to revoke a standby guardianship that becomes effective on death "by a subsequent designation of standby guardian set forth in a will", so the two documents should name the same people unless the change is deliberate.
How should I draft the guardian clause?
A workable guardian clause answers the questions the court would otherwise decide:
- Name a guardian of the person and, if different, a guardian of the property, with at least one successor for each.
- Coordinate with the other parent so both wills name the same guardian; otherwise, in a common disaster, the court chooses.
- Decide whether the children's inheritance should pass to a trust instead of a court-supervised guardianship of the property.
- Sign a standby guardian designation under SCPA § 1726 so someone has authority during the period before letters of guardianship issue.
- Talk to the people you name; under SCPA § 1711 a nominee who does not qualify within three months after probate is deemed to have renounced.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Can I name a guardian for my children in my will in New York?
Yes. Domestic Relations Law § 81 lets a parent appoint a guardian of the person and of the property of an unmarried child under eighteen by a duly executed will or deed.
Does the guardian I name in my will override the child's other parent?
Generally no. Under DRL § 81, a will appointment is valid and effective if, when the will is admitted to probate, the other parent has died or has been adjudicated incompetent.
Can I name one person to raise my kids and another to manage their money?
Yes. DRL § 81 says a parent appointing guardians of the person and of the property is not limited to naming the same person in both capacities.
When can the guardian named in my will start acting?
Only after the will is admitted to probate and the Surrogate's Court issues letters of guardianship, under SCPA § 1710. The named guardian must qualify within 3 months after probate under SCPA § 1711(2), unless the court extends the time for good cause.
What is a standby guardian in New York?
Under SCPA § 1726, a standby guardian is a person whose authority begins on the parent's death, incapacity or administrative separation, or on the parent's debilitation and consent. A parent can designate one in writing signed before two adult witnesses other than the standby guardian.
How long does a standby guardian have to go to court?
Under SCPA § 1726(4)(c), a standby guardian named by written designation must file a petition within sixty days after the authority begins, or the authority ceases until the petition is filed.
Does the court consider my child's wishes about a guardian?
Yes. SCPA § 1706(1) requires the court to ascertain the preference of a youth over the age of fourteen for a suitable guardian.
Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal or tax advice. No attorney-client relationship is formed by reading this publication. Prior results do not guarantee a similar outcome. Reviewed by Alan Vaitzman, Esq. — Managing Attorney at Estate Law New York. Working in estate law since 2017. J.D., New York Law School (2021); B.A. in Psychology, Brooklyn College (2016). Admitted to practice in New York (Reg. No. 5989199), New Jersey, and Florida (Bar No. 1040681). Office: 299 Broadway, 17th Floor, New York, NY 10007.